Monday, September 17, 2012

Remember those Motivating Mondays???

So I've been staying at my parents recently. Sort of a stopover between lives...the old one I really disliked is buried in the past behind me and the new one I'm holding my breath to begin is hovering somewhere in the mist of the future. Here, where I am, is something in between. No longer running from the crappy past but not running toward the exhilarating future either. I guess this is what limbo is like (for those of you who are Catholics, you know what I'm talking about).

While prepping for this post, I realized I've been stuck in limbo for a month now. I haven't been pushing forward or even looking for the silver lining in life's trials and tribulations. In fact, my brain has sort of been in idle. Resting I guess. Taking a timeout...a break.... maybe a much needed timeout but breaks over. It's time to re-engage. So without further ado, I'm jumping back into the world of motivating and inspiring by babysteps...


I SOOOOOO get this!!! I'm somewhere near the third curve to the left....

 
I like this one! On my way to Sherwin-Williams right now!
 
 
 
 
I know I've been guilty of this one...sort of like using a sledgehammer to crack a nut!
 



This is SO true and also so tough to remember. It's hard to remember when your feelings are hurt...easy to say but difficult to wrap your head another. We all view life through our own filters....



While I like this one in theory, I refer you back to the first picture and remind you that I am somewhere near the 3rd curve to the left...I think my dream needs glasses! Or at least a compass and a map!!





This is SO true...so many people put their lives on hold, saving for when they can afford it, afraid to stick their necks outside of their comfort zone or expecting to live the highlife after retirement, only to experience a life-altering event that prevents them from ever living their dreams. I wonder how many people lying on their deathbeds look back in regret, wishing they'd had the nerve to just live.




Hummmm...which voice are you listening to today?
 
 
Had to throw this one in! So true, so true...
 

Where are you in your life today? So which one of these speak to you? Or maybe you have another one you'd like to share? Let me know...let's dialog, chat and converse.... (that's code for leave comments!!!)

Sunday, September 9, 2012

When Is Enough Too Much???



It's been a rough week. Things happened last weekend, nothing earth shattering, but hurtful--painful--things and I haven't been able to shake the sadness. I know we are suppose to get over it, get on with it, deal with it and move on but....when is enough too much?

Sometimes life makes you face your past no matter how fast you try to outrun it.

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Ups and Downs...


Since Motivational Monday was a holiday, I decided to offer a thought-provoking Tuesday message instead.

Have you ever watched a movie where someone has been kidnapped or maybe his/her home or village is under attack and the main character is hiding but knows he/she will soon be discovered? For some reason, the victim never seems to escape without being noticed. It always seems like they are almost in the clear and then the captor notices something weird like a door slightly ajar or movement in the trees and all hell breaks loose. The victim runs for his/her life with half an army in hot pursuit. It’s very obvious that the main story line is that Point A equals danger and Point B equals safety and it’s the one and only focus of the victim to get from point A to point B without getting captured. The victim runs for hours or maybe even days, through horrible conditions and treacherous terrain. Always they want to stop for awhile, they just want to rest for a few minutes. They have been running for hours and surely they’ve put enough distance between themselves and the dangerous point A that it’s okay to relax a little…let their guards down a little….right? Of course not. The dangerous point A isn’t a fixed point. It isn’t the building that they escaped from that’s dangerous. It’s the people in it and those people are chasing them. Those people have been running for hours too and might just be a few hundred yards behind the victim. The escapee isn’t running from danger, they brought it with them.
 
At first it seems like the moral of the whole story is to get from point A to point B, from danger to safety, but the real moral is simpler than that. It’s just to get to point B. The goal is to get to safety—don’t look back, don’t quit and don’t stop to rest—just keep moving until you’ve reached safety.

I know what you’re thinking….what does this have to do with a thought provoking Tuesday? Well, it seems we have the same goal in life, just as in the movies. We find ourselves hunkered down, hiding from someone or something we don’t want to face but eventually we recognize that we’ve got to move—got to change the situation because we can’t hide anymore so we run. We find a way to change our lives—we stick our necks out—we try something new and different and at first it feels so liberating. We feel free for the first time in a long time but before we know it, it doesn’t feel so liberating anymore. Actually it’s exhausting. Our legs are so tired. We’ve run and run and run. So all we want to do is sit down for awhile and rest. Point A is far off in the distance so it’s safe to stop and breathe for a minute. We just want to coast—just take a break and relax--- nothing wrong with that right? But when we least expect it, something jumps up and reminds us that the goal wasn’t to get away from point A, it was to get to point B. Something or someone lets us know that we aren’t “there” yet and resting on our laurels isn’t getting us any closer to our goal—to the reason we ran in the first place.

And so we stand up. Tired, bruised and bloodied, we stand up and we start moving. Our legs feel like jelly as first, the muscles quivering with exhaustion and threatening to cramp, but still we move. Soon our muscles are warmed up and we can move a little faster, maybe then jog or run. More distance is added between us and the dreaded point A as we move toward our goal—toward safety. Several times we may find ourselves too tired to go on but each time we have a choice to make. Keep moving forward or risk getting caught. Assuming we have the fortitude to go on, we eventually find ourselves within the safety of point B, reflecting on our journey and our desire to stop several times. Hindsight shows us why we couldn’t stop. Escaping point A without making it to the safety of point B would guarantee us that we’d forever be longing for point B and looking over our shoulders for the captors from point A.  Stopping in mid-journey is simply exchanging one prison for another.