I've been trying really hard to remember this...to live my life this way....it's hard, really really hard. Seems like such a simple idea..a positive one....a no-brainer, but it's hard. Mostly because we (or at least I) get in the rut of letting things go unsaid...reading between the lines instead of asking for clarification....such an easy rut to fall into and nearly impossible to get out of.
The funny thing is, if a complete stranger were telling us a story or explaining a situation and we didn't understand him or needed more details, we'd simply ask...because that shows interest and concern...doing this makes us a good listener....a kind hearted person....a giver...a caring individual...
So why don't we treat those close to us the same way? Isn't it the same act of kindness, no matter who we are focusing on? Why do our actions change so drastically, depending on who holds our attention? Why is it an act of kindness for a stranger but confrontation with a loved one?
Thoughts, comments, ideas??????
1 comment:
With a loved one or friend you know their reaction, total stranger you don't so you feel more comfortable with saying what's on your mind.
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